- Alienation from God
- Bondage to Self
- Conflict with Others
Bondage. Sin not only estranges, it enslaves (Rom 6:17). It alienates us from God, and brings us into captivity to ourselves. It is a deep-seated inward corruption and depravity that is total and complete (Jer 17:9; Gen 6:5). We are not sinners because we sin. Rather, we sin because we are sinners. A sinner is who we are. Nothing good we do can alleviate it; nothing bad we do can worsen it. What's the evidence that we are sinners? Jesus describes my heart "perfectly" when he said, "For it is from within, out of a person’s heart, that evil thoughts come—sexual immorality, theft, murder, 22 adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. 23 All these evils come from inside and defile a person" (Mark 7:21-23). Because of our bondage, we lack self-mastery, such as controlling our tongue (James 3:1-12); we have high ideals, but weak wills; we want to be good, but are self-centered; we live in the land of the free, but are in reality slaves. Rules of conduct don't work; we can't keep them. We need a Savior (Matt 1:21).
Conflict. I will dwell on this painful point, because conflicts among men have been the bane of our human existence from antiquity. Self-centeredness controls us. We find it hard to adjust to others. We tend to despise them or envy them, feel superior or inferior to them. We are full of self-pity or self-esteem, self-will or self-love.
Most quarrels are due to a misunderstanding, and the misunderstanding is due to our failure to appreciate the other man's point of view. We would rather talk, than listen, argue rather than submit. Many conflicts could be resolved if both sides first examined themselves critically and then examined the other side charitably, instead of which we are always charitable to ourselves and critical of others. We exaggerate our own virtue and the other man's vice.
Why must we know sin in order to know grace? Unless we are sick, we won't seek a doctor (Mark 2:17). Unless we know our desperate need, we won't really seek a cure. We will never put our trust in Christ until we have first despaired of ourselves. Only when we have realized and faced up to the seriousness of our illness will we admit our urgent desperate need for a cure.
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