8/18/2013

I Am Having A Bad Day (PAL)


I am having a bad day. [My friend Abraham Lincoln of Boston UBF gave the sermon at West Loop today with this title.] What do you do when you have a bad day? When Adam had a bad day he blamed his wife (Gen 3:12). When Cain had a bad day he committed fratricide (Gen 4:8). When Abram had a bad day, he complained about his childlessness (Gen 15:2-4). When the older son had a bad day, he angrily accused his gracious father for being unfair (Lk 15:29-30).

God (always) comes in grace. When they each had a bad day, God came to them in grace. God gave Adam a chance to come clean (Gen 3:9). God gently asked Cain why he was upset (Gen 4:6-7). God promised Abram a great reward (Gen 15:1). The father (who represents God) said tenderly to his son, "My son, you are always with me and everything I have is yours" (Lk 15:31). What a marvelous grace it is to be told by God, "Everything I have is yours!"

8/16/2013

Promises Of Blessing Despite Much Sin

Last Sun I completed preaching on what Jesus said to the Seven Churches in Revelation chapter 2-3. Briefly:
  1. Ephesus was a loveless church. She was excellent in Bible study and Christian activities, but lacking in love (Rev 2:4). They spoke the truth very well, but their love was not evident (Eph 4:15).
  2. Smyrna was a suffering church. She received no rebuke from Jesus because they were willing to suffer for their faith unto death (Rev 2:10b). They supremely valued Jesus and did not consider it a loss to lose their own lives.

How Would You Assess Good Preaching?

How does one assess how well a preacher or Bible teacher did in preaching and teaching the Bible?

A friend came up with these excellent questions which I thought would give good feedback to the preacher, messenger and/or Bible teacher.

On a scale of 1-10, how well did the message/sermon/preacher/Bible teacher:
  1. Engage your mind and your intellect?
  2. Bring you into the presence of God?
  3. Change your life in any significant way?

Additional questions could include, how well did the preacher:

Do You Fight Fair? (Graham's Hierarchy)


When someone says/writes something you do not like or makes you upset, how do you respond? Look at Graham's Hierarchy of Disagreement. At what level of the triangle do you resort to. Lower levels are reactive, impulsive, defensive and offensive. Higher levels are fair, well thought out and reasoned responses. Here is a detailed explanation of each level.

When arguing/disagreeing, do you say/write/think:
  • "You're so stupid"? (This is the lowest level: Name Calling.)
  • "You are unspiritual, proud, immature and jealous"? (Ad hominem [which means "Against the man"].)
  • "I don't like the critical way you write/speak"? (Responding to Tone.)
  • "I disagree"? (Contradiction.)

8/13/2013

Are You A Multiplier Or A Diminisher?

Genius or genius maker? Bono describes best the difference between a Diminisher and a Multiplier: "It has been said that after meeting with the great British Prime Minister William Ewart Gladston, you left feeling he was the smartest person in the world; but after meeting with his rival Benjamin Disraeli, you left thinking your were the smartest person."

The former is a genius (a diminisher). The latter is a genius maker (a multiplier). Which person would you rather be? How can you tell what type of person you are? Are you a multiplier or a diminisher?

Diminishers:
  • Create stress.

7/30/2013

2 Kinds of Leadership

Hierarchical (Authoritarian) Leadership
Shepherding (Christ-like) Leadership 
 "Over" others.
 "Among" others.
Control others.
Respect others.
Elite.
Common.
Exclusive.
Inclusive.
Top down.
Bottom up.
Oppressive.
Liberating.
Based on position, rank, status, honorific titles.
Based on godly character
Measured by prominence, external power and political influence.
Measured by humility and servitude.
 Exploits their position to rule over others as "the older."
 Shuns special reverence; regard themselves as "the younger."
 Operates on a political chain-of-command social structure.
 Flows from childlike meekness and sacrificial service.
 Plants the fear of man.
 Causes awe, wonder and freedom.

Reference: 
  1. Two Kinds of Shepherding.
  2.  Shepherding Sheep (Mt 20:25-28).

Some Quotes for Reflection

Pride: "The more pride we have, the more other people's pride irritates us." C.S. Lewis

 

Love (not force): "The tremendous truth of Christianity is that the coercion of God is not of force but of love. God chose the dangerous way of love (not force or coercion), and love in the end will triumph." William Barclay


Rom 12:9: "Love must be without hypocrisy" (HCSB). "Let love be genuine" (ESV). "Love must be sincere" (NIV). "Don't just pretend that you love others. Really love them" (NLT). "Love from the center of who you are; don't fake it" (MSG). "Let love be without dissimulation [deception]" (KJV).

 

Leadership: "The (true) leader must lead his followers towards a responsibility to the orders of life, a responsibility to father, teacher, judge, state. He must radically refuse to become the appeal, the idol, i.e. the ultimate authority of those whom he leads. He must limit himself to his task with all soberness." Dietrich Bonhoeffer

 

"God can work wonders if he can get a suitable man. Men can work wonders if they can get God to lead them." E. M.Bounds

 

"Jesus leadership is not one of power and control but of powerlessness and humility, in which the suffering servant of God, Jesus Christ is made manifest. Power must constantly be abandoned in favor of love." Henri Nouwen

 

Faith and works: "We are saved by faith alone (not by works); but not by faith that remains alone." Martin Luther

 

Law: "A low view of law always produces legalism; a high view of law makes a person a seeker after grace." J. Gresham Machen

 

Sin: "The greatest of sins is to be conscious of no sin." William Barclay

 

Repentence: "To truly become Christians we must also repent of the reasons we ever did anything right. Pharisees only repent of their sins, but Christians repent for the very root of their righteousness, too." Tim Keller, The Prodigal God, p. 78

 

Dependency: "The Church that is dependent on its past history for its miracles of power and grace is a fallen Church." E.M.Bounds

 

Being hurt: "This bruising is required before conversion that so that Spirit may make way for himself into the heart by leveling all proud, high thoughts, and that we may understand ourselves to be what indeed we are by nature. After conversion we need bruising so that reeds may know themselves to be reeds, and not oaks." Richard Sibbes, The Bruised Reed

 

Preaching: "To preach is to woo. The main scope of all [preaching] is, to allure us to the entertainment of Christ's mild, safe, wise, victorious government." Richard Sibbes

 

"Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim…silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented." Elie Weisel

 

Gospel: "The truth of the Gospel is the principle article of all Christian doctrine...Most necessary is it that we know this article well, teach it to others, & beat it into their heads continually." Martin Luther

 

Grace: "The very center and core of the whole Bible is the doctrine of the grace of God--the grace of God which depends not one whit upon anything that is in man but is absolutely underserved, resistless and sovereign. ...and Christian experience also depends for its depth and for its power upon the way in which that blessed doctrine is cherished in the depths of the heart. The center of the Bible, and the center of Christianity, is found in the grace of God; and the necessary corollary of the grace of God is salvation through faith alone." J. Greshan Machen

 

"In the NT, 'grace' is a word of central importance - the keyword, in fact, of Christianity. The thought of grace is the key that unlocks the NT; and it is the only key that does so. However well we may know the NT, we cannot get inside its meaning till we know something of what grace is." J.I. Packer

 

"Grace is the hardest thing for us to be reconciled to, because it implies the renouncing of our pretensions, our power, our pomp and circumstance. It is opposite of everything our 'religious' sentiments are looking for." Jacques Ellul (French philosopher, law professor, lay theologian)


"Put bluntly, the church today accepts grace in theory but denies it in practice. We say we believe that the fundamental structure of reality is grace, not works–but our lives refute our faith. By and large, the gospel of grace is neither proclaimed, understood, nor lived. Too many Christians are living in a house of fear and not in the house of love." Brennan Manning

 

"Religious people don't like grace because it messes up their authority and directives of giving advice, telling people what to do and not to do, being a boss. Grace undermines condemnation, fear, and threat, which are the best tools for religion." Justine Holcomb

 

Let go: "As I felt the anger rising up, I thought to myself, 'They have already had you for twenty-seven years. And if you keep hating them, they'll have you again.' And I said, 'I want to be free.' And so I let it go. I let it go." Nelson Mendela

 

Who am I: "I am not what I ought to be, I am not what I want to be, I am not what I hope to be in another world; but still I am not what I once used to be, and by the grace of God I am what I am." John Newton