No one enjoys life without delight and happiness. The good news is that the God who loves us desires to fill our hearts and lives with delight and happiness. The utmost ultimate delight and happiness is found in our triune God. The delightful things in this world--love, marriage, family, friendships, fellowship, feasts--only points to the ultimate Delight.
"Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Ps 37:4). "You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand" (Ps 16:11). "They feast on the abundance of your house; you give them drink from your river of delights" (Ps 36:8). "Rejoice always" (1 Th 5:16). "The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace..." (Gal 5:22). " I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete" (Jn 15:11).